add struct mapping and modularize codebase
- add validateStruct, columnIndex, fromRow to Query type
- split into modules: Query.zig, parse.zig, root.zig (all <200 lines)
- mark as alpha in README and root.zig
- fix comptime slice issues with inline fn
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