feat: merge API + WebSocket onto single port, add memory metrics
serve all HTTP endpoints via websocket.zig httpFallback on the main
WebSocket port (3000). the old HttpServer becomes a minimal MetricsServer
on RELAY_METRICS_PORT (3001) serving only /metrics.
adds process-level metrics (RSS, thread count on linux) and validator
cache/migration queue gauges to the prometheus endpoint.
updates zat to v0.2.10 and websocket.zig to 9e6d732 (HTTP fallback support).
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>