feat: switch persistence from SQLite to Postgres
replace zqlite with pg.zig for metadata storage. schema now matches
the Go indigo relay (account, account_repo, log_file_refs, domain_ban).
removes the seqToSqlite/sqliteToSeq XOR hack — Postgres BIGINT handles
u64 natively. DATABASE_URL env var replaces RELAY_DB_PATH.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>