perf: reduce memory footprint — gate history, drop outbuf, halve stacks
- skip 50K frame ring buffer when disk persist is active (always in prod)
- remove redundant outbuf in event_log; flush writes directly from evtbuf
- reduce thread stacks from 2 MiB to 1 MiB (~2,700 threads)
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>