feat(bot): use zat's jetstream failover instead of single host
stop overriding .hosts with a single endpoint — use zat's 12 default
jetstream instances with round-robin failover, exponential backoff, and
cursor rewind on host switch. PREFERRED_JETSTREAM env var optionally
prepends a preferred host to try first (e.g. for canary testing).
adds onConnect callback so the stats dashboard shows whichever instance
is currently connected, updating live on failover.
also wires up the backend image resize proxy for non-GIF uploads.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>