add persistence, graceful shutdown, and UI refresh
backend:
- init SQLite + load/save entity graph state
- SIGTERM handler for graceful shutdown on fly.io
- periodic saver thread (every 30s)
site:
- updated copy (turbostream-powered, clusters)
- simplified stats display
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