Fix computation of `isLastSibling`, `isLastChild`, and `replyIndex` (#9202)
* Fix computation of isLastSibling and isLastChild to account for muted or
otherwise hidden replies
* Update comments
* isLastSiblingByCounts isn't needed, should rely only on the count of replies seen
* The counters serve the same purpose, we only need to know the count of the actual replies rendered to the view in order to calculate the replyIndex
* Remove redundant check
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