feat(db): add migration for comment deletion metadata
Add migration 021 that:
- Creates deletion_reason enum type (author, moderator)
- Adds deletion_reason and deleted_by columns to comments table
- Backfills existing deleted comments as author-deleted
- Removes deleted_at IS NULL filter from thread indexes to preserve structure
- Adds indexes for deletion_reason and deleted_by for moderation queries
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